Introduction

Focus Question 3

Decide if comfort levels changes how you share information and space.

Read the descriptions in the boxes. Put a checkmark next to the descriptions that are most true for you.

I’m not comfortable saying exactly what I think because it might hurt relationships. I don’t share strong feelings and opinions. This is my way of showing concern for people’s feelings. I’m not comfortable using strong words, high volume, speed, or gestures in difficult conversations. I’m not comfortable sharing some information or opinions with some people. I’m not comfortable sharing space with some people.

I’m comfortable saying exactly what I think because it shows I care about the relationship. I’m comfortable showing strong feelings and opinions. This is my way of showing sincerity. I’m comfortable using strong words, high volume, speed, or gestures in difficult conversations. I’m comfortable sharing all kinds of information or opinions with most people. I’m comfortable sharing space with most people.

Drag the star and place it on the dot closest to the way you share information and space. There is no right or wrong answer for this task.

Reset